Good Words

Many people will walk in and out of your life.
But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.
Anger is only one letter short of danger.

Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.

He, who loses money, loses much;
He, who loses a friend, loses much more;
He, who loses faith, loses all.

Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.
Friends, you and me ....
You brought another friend.
And then there were 3 ....
We started our group ...
Our circle of friends ....

There is no beginning or end......
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
Live your life fully.

My personality?

Hypersensitivity and insecurity define you,
but if not for them,
you wouldn't work nearly so hard to be the mensch that you are.
Despite your impeccable intuition and instincts,
your fear of failure and rejection thwarts you from setting and achieving goals.
Hence the important role that supporters and admirers play in your life.
Since you're incorrigibly impressionable to the perceptions of others, seek believers and encouragers.
Strong, confident personalities who catch your eye tend to cross your path recurrently.
Cultivate relationships with the safest, most emotionally securing of these potential mentors.
An assertiveness trainer can show you how to conquer your passive past.
A loving relationship is your link to being the best that you can be.
Each stride you make will work synergistically with the next
because the more secure you become, the less comfort you'll find in melancholy.
You may eventually cease to subordinate your own happiness and pleasure to that of others.
You'll always run to the rescue of troubled souls.
But as you build a nest with someone who soothes your own troubled soul,
you'll live less vicariously and ever more vigorously.

What shall I do?

I hate to say,
But I have to say,
For tis' true,
That I'm extremely emotional,
And I do mean to the very extreme.

I'll stop talking,
Be very cold,
Be very gloomy,
Be very stern,
Easily stirred,
Prone to release frustration unnecessarily.

Knowing tis' nature,
But tis' a bad one to hold on to,
For till' be harmful,
Bring disadvantages and disturbances,
To my own peace of mind....and others.

Yet....what can I do?

I need to meditate....and sleep,
To get more self-control.

Quote of the Day

"The victory of success is half won when one gains the habit of setting goals and achieving them."

Even the most tedious chore will become endurable
As you parade through each day convinced that every task,
No matter how menial or boring,
It brings you closer to achieving your dreams.....

Chinese Philosophy

Proud man hath no heaven;
The envious man hath no neighbour;
An angry himself hath not even himself....

10 things I hate about you.

1. I hate you for building up my childhood dreams, and then crushing it with no benevolence.
2. I hate you for doing so much things in such a short period of time, things that you made me appreciated the most, and finally just to make it more difficult for me to forget you.
3. I hate you for wanting to try things out, when you still haven't let go of the past, still having a hard time forgetting the past and still having difficulties moving on.
4. I hate you for doing things impulsively, not caring about the consequences that may hurt another party in the future, so much.
5. I hate you for going after superficial beauty of a woman, when the beautiness will one day deteriorate as one ages. Beauty does dwell from the heart, only.
6. I hate you for making me stronger and more matured, when I like to be the little innocent girl whom I used to be. Never try to change a person for she is the special her.
7. I hate you for not trying to communicate with me properly, for trying to ignore the problem when it arose.
8. I hate you for hoping that things will be solved just by giving me a bloody sentence in the msn messenger, after taking a period of time to consider what you feel is right while testing my patience.
9. I hate you for going to the mini jamboree 12 years ago, for being such a cheeky yet charming little boy.
10. I hate you for making it so damn hard for me to ignore what happened, and that I seriously, have failed to ignore you entirely...

qUotE fOr tHe dAy

"You will find yourself refreshed by the presence of cheerful people. Why not make earnest effort to confer that pleasure on others? Half the battle is gained if you never allow yourself to say anything gloomy."

Yesterday was a history, Tomorrow is a mystery..

My childhood dream,
Was finally destroyed,
In a somewhat harsh way,
By someone I used to think specially,
Just today.

Now that its is over,
I'm back to reality,
Back to original,
Back to natural,
Stand strong and steady.

How I wish,
There's always a turning back,
To when I was little,
Or younger,
Or even few years ago,
Or minutes before.

How I wish,
That life can be
Much more simpler,
Easier to handle,
And if only its,
Never with worries,
Never with greed,
Never with jealousy,
Never with anger,
Never with too much passion,
I would very much appreciate it.

What's wrong with you?

I have nothing to say really,
But I just can't understand why,

some people can be as selfish as a fishmonger,
some couples can be as sweet as honey topped with caramel,
some guys can be as insensitive as a twig,
some girls can be as emotional as the weather in melbourne...

I don't really fancy moving on with my life...but

what can I do~?

Damnit~

Damn~Damn~Damn~
Damnit~Damnit~Damnit~
Everything is just Bullshit~!

D A M N I T~!