Funny thing

I was asked twice in a week, by two totally different person to involve myself into a relationship, which I am yet to be sure whether myself is ready. And I am not sure whether has one got to be prepared to become one's girlfriend or is it a spontaneous reaction and just requires adaptation?
In fact, the main reason of my refusal was obvious - dislike the physical contact. But be careful not to interpret in another diverted direction, I only dislike physical contact with the pepople I don't feel comfortable with, and that includes both sexes.